婚后与父母生活还是不生活?

婚后与父母生活还是不生活?
Helen Smith

我们与你分享优点和缺点,这将有助于你决定是否要 婚后与父母同住或不同住 .

"结了婚的男人想要房子,"母亲们看到男友在他们家呆的时间太长时,常常这样说。 这句话之后是父亲的典型说法...... "那你的意图是什么? 但我们现在来谈谈住房选择,也就是说、 婚后与父母同住或不同住 .

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在婚礼和蜜月之后,我们中的一些人将得到一套新的公寓(即使是租来的),但其他许多人(大多数)则 我们在夫妻双方中的一方的父母家的房间里安顿下来,而我们则乘飞机。

许多人是 第一次作为夫妻生活的提示 但让我们来谈谈许多丈夫和妻子面临的情况:住在婆家。 一位专家对此有什么建议?

优点:婚后是否与父母同住

我们咨询了心理学家André Didyme-Dome,他向我们解释如下:

婚后与公婆同住的好处

  1. 经济 与父母同住可以节省租金、水电费甚至日常开支。 如果有组织和真正的伙伴关系,与父母同住可以成为许多经济困难的夫妇在这个危机时期的答案。
  2. 护理 如果你有孩子,父母可以扮演祖父母的角色,可以解决涵盖工作和家务的永恒难题。 而如果父母做饭,当他们下班回家时,总会有食物可寻。
  3. 信任 与父母同住通常意味着与你完全信任的人同住,你可以毫无顾忌地对他说些什么。 当你们每天生活在一起时,这一点非常重要。 与一个陌生人或你不信任的人在一起,你很难表达你的问题和困难。

缺点:婚后是否与父母同住

不作为独立的已婚夫妇生活的缺点

  1. 不成熟 作为一个成年人的特征之一是自主性。 与父母一起生活是一种回归行为,无论我们喜欢与否,这都会产生依赖性的束缚。
  2. 没有隐私 与父母一起生活几乎可以消灭性生活。
  3. 限制条件 重要的是要记住,如果你和父母住在一起,他们是家里的主人,他们的规则比客人的规则更重要。 出于这个原因,自由、习惯和时间管理在很大程度上取决于他们的决定。

告诉我们你的经验,它对你来说是怎样的? 婚后与公婆或父母同住 在本文的评论中给我们写下你的意见。

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Helen Smith
Helen Smith
Helen Smith is a seasoned beauty enthusiast and an accomplished blogger known for her expertise in the field of cosmetics and skincare. With over a decade of experience in the beauty industry, Helen possesses an intimate understanding of the latest trends, innovative products, and effective beauty tips.Helen's passion for beauty ignited during her college years when she discovered the transformative power of makeup and skincare routines. Intrigued by the endless possibilities that beauty offers, she decided to pursue a career in the industry. After completing her degree in Cosmetology and receiving international certifications, Helen embarked on a journey that would redefine her life.Throughout her career, Helen has worked with top beauty brands, spas, and renowned makeup artists, immersing herself in various aspects of the industry. Her exposure to diverse cultures and beauty rituals from around the world has broadened her knowledge and expertise, enabling her to curate a unique blend of global beauty tips.As a blogger, Helen's authentic voice and engaging writing style have earned her a dedicated following. Her ability to explain complex skincare routines and makeup techniques in a simple, relatable manner has made her a trusted source of advice for beauty enthusiasts of all levels. From debunking common beauty myths to providing tried-and-true tips for achievingglowing skin or mastering the perfect winged eyeliner, Helen's blog is a treasure trove of invaluable information.Passionate about promoting inclusivity and embracing natural beauty, Helen strives to ensure her blog caters to diverse audiences. She believes that everyone deserves to feel confident and beautiful in their own skin, regardless of age, gender, or societal standards.When not writing or testing the latest beauty products, Helen can be found attending beauty conferences, collaborating with fellow industry experts, or traveling the world to discover unique beauty secrets. Through her blog, she aims to empower her readers to feel their best, armed with the knowledge and tools to enhance their natural beauty.With Helen's expertise and unwavering commitment to helping others look and feel their best, her blog serves as a go-to resource for all beauty enthusiasts seeking reliable advice and unparalleled tips.